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Thursday, October 2, 2008

No Pressure

Hi Guys!!!
Hope you day is going well so far? Okay, so everyone is getting married this year.What is happening?I know about 6 people getting married before the end of this year and early next year.Why can't they even wait for us to recover from one wedding before another one...haha.. Congratulations to all of them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The thing is that I love weddings, I love seeing people get married and in love and genuinely happy...I cry(well get teary-eyed) when i see people's wedding websites, their story,how they met, pictures,memories and all that wonderful stuff. Although am still young : D, i can't help but think about these things.I have started thinking about colors, dresses, engagement rings, decorations, flowers, music, season... but at the same time, its scary because you are going to be living with someone for the rest of your life and y'all know that until you live with someone you don't really know who they truly are... as in there are some things that will just surface...poor toilet manners, not replacing toilet paper, dirty socks, spilling stuff and not cleaning up after yourself....the list goes on and on...

Also,I think it is very important to be whole before you commit to spend the rest of your life with someone and am not talking about only being whole financially but emotionally, in your relationships with other people, domestically and most importantly, spiritually. I also don't think people should get married because there is pressure from family, friends and amebos...let us set a *reasonable* standard for ourselves and not settle for anything less cos i know people that say "Oh if he's not tall, dark and handsome, i can't be with him"... You yourself, do you measure up to the same standard you have set for another person. ~~~I sound like a marriage counselor~~~

So am sitting in class today, reading blogs on my phone and something came to me. Do you ever feel like you are going through the motion. School, home, school, home...The same ol' stuff...I need some excitement!!!!. I have a routine i go through every single day unconsciously and I don't want that anymore.

Who's going to watch the Vice-Presidential Debate tonight? I can't wait to laugh ; )

Later

3 comments:

NaijaScorpio said...

First! Whoo hoo! I feel u on being stuck in the same ol routine. Do something to spice it up.

O'Dee said...

"It is very important to be whole before you commit to spend the rest of your life with someone"

Very true.

never parry cos of pressure oh, cos you'll just regret it. Or even say it when things r hard.

Buttercup said...

yea..its like theres no marriage season anymore, it happens everyday!

sometimes i really look forward to mine..other times im just so freaked out..

i also have the same routine everyday..its pitiful!

i missed the debate o..